You expect that I should be finished with the grieving process and that's making things worse for me.
I need to talk to you about the struggle I'm having with the loss we went through.
I feel that you're acting as if mom's death doesn't even matter to you.
I feel that you're acting as if dad's death doesn't even matter to you.
I feel that we need to sit down to resolve the family problems that occurred before and after the funeral.
I was very hurt by the way that you treated me during the funeral services.
I am very upset that you did not include me in the planning for much of the funeral service.
I am very upset with the way you acted and behaved all around the time of the funeral services.
I am very upset that you did not follow the wishes of our parent when you planned their funeral.
I know you're struggling with your loss and I want to help you.