CONTROL ISSUES

• I feel that you are trying to undermine my discipline as a grandparent.

• Please stop sabotaging my relationships with people that I care about.

• I feel that you need to stop trying to embarrass me in public.

• I feel you try to control whom I choose as friends.

• I feel you are too demanding and place unrealistic expectations on our children.

• I feel you are too demanding and place unrealistic expectations on people in general.

• I feel you are too demanding and place unrealistic expectations on your workforce.

• I feel that you tried to get me fired.

• I feel you are trying to control the type of job that I get.

• I feel you are trying to control my entire life.

• I feel that you are stalking me.

• I feel that you are trying to change me.

• I feel that you never seem to let things go even after I take responsibility or apologize.

• I feel that since you leant me money you think you have the right to control my life.

• I completely resent your attempts to control all the decisions that I make in my life.

• I need you to stop acting as if you are better than I am.

• I feel it would be best if you didn't get in the middle of my relationship problems.

• I am very upset that you are trying to prevent me from having other friends.

• I feel that you are trying to treat me like a child.

• I feel you try to control me by wearing me down with power struggles and constant bickering.

• I feel your mismanagement of our funds and finances has brought us to the brink of a financial crisis.

• I feel you are putting too many demands and expectations on me.

• I feel you want to control who I date and marry.

• Please stop making me feel guilty for the choices I make in my life.

• I feel that I have no say in this relationship.

• I feel that our life only revolves around the things that interest you.

• I feel I have little voice in our financial decisions.

• I feel that you attempt to meddle in my affairs.

• I feel that you try to control all our decisions even though we are adults.

• I feel that you try to control me with money.

• I feel that you try to use money and gifts as a replacement for the little time you spend with me.

• I feel that you try to take control over everything we do.

• I feel that you try to control how I dress and look.

• Please stop judging all my life choices.

• I feel that you are never satisfied with the accomplishments or choices I make.

• I feel that you are always trying to be in charge of me at work even though you are not my boss.

• I feel that you try to make me feel bad about going to work.

• I feel that you try to make me look bad at work.

• I feel that you always try to make me look bad.

• I feel that you place unrealistic expectations on our friends.

• I feel that you place unrealistic expectations on your family.

• I feel that you never let things go and hold things over people's heads.

• I feel that you let your coworkers get to you and ruin your attitude.

• I feel that you let your family get to you and ruin your attitude.

• Please stop sabotaging my relationship with our children.

• I feel that you let your friends get to you and ruin your attitude.

• I feel that you let people get to you and ruin your attitude.

• Please stop sabotaging my relationship with your family.

• Please stop sabotaging my relationship with my family.

• I feel you try to control how I will spend my money.

• Please stop sabotaging my relationship with our friends.