I feel that you are treating my children differently than you are treating yours.
I feel that you are giving your new stepmother such a hard time.
I feel that you are giving your new stepfather such a hard time.
I feel that you haven't given me a chance or tried to accept me as your stepparent.
Please don't take the difficulty I am having accepting you as a new stepparent personally.
I really wish you could understand how difficult it is to try to adjust to this new stepparent situation.
I feel like you have allowed your new spouse to change how you have parented us for years.
I want you to believe me that your new spouse is treating me very unfairly.
I feel that you seem more concerned about protecting and supporting your new stepchildren than you do your biological children.
I feel hurt that you won't try to accept me as your new stepchild.
I feel you never try to understand how being your step parent is just as much an adjustment for me as it is for you.