IRRESPONSIBILITY ISSUES

I feel that you are always trying to blame me or someone else for your problems.

I feel that you don't show any desire to change your ways.

I feel that you won't take the time to get the help you need.

I feel that you won't help plan our future goals.

I feel that you won't take any advice.

I feel you need to start putting more effort into our family.

I feel that you haven't completed your court ordered responsibilities.

I need to hear you say that you are sorry for what you did.

I feel that you never ask for any help from your family or friends when you really need it.

I feel that you never apologize or take responsibility for any of the problems we have.

I feel that you are not taking care of your hygiene.

I feel that you need to stop trying to blame me for your affair.

I feel that anytime you have a serious problem, you run from it rather than to work through it.

I feel that you are taking advantage and using people to solve your problems.

I feel that I'm the only one that cooks for us.

I need you to start putting more effort into helping me with our family finances.

I feel that you continue to not show enough effort and responsibility with our new baby.

I feel that you need to give me more help around the house.

I feel you need to take more responsibility to find a job.

I feel you need to be more responsible and hold a job once you get it.

I feel you need to take more responsibility caring for our pets.

I feel you need to take more responsibility to care for our parents.

I feel that you need to stop trying to blame me for all of your anger and stress.

I feel you need to take more responsibility to care for our mother.

I need you to take more responsibility to care for our father.

I feel you need to take more responsibility caring for our car.

I need you to be more responsible when you are babysitting.

I feel that you need to stop trying to blame me for your poor choices in life.

I feel that you are not admitting your share of responsibility or apologizing for your part in our problems.

I feel that you need to be more supportive of me if I am going to be able to deal with this pregnancy.

I feel that you rarely help plan any family or social activities.

I feel that you show little effort to try to heal our relationship.

I feel that you haven't shown any effort to improve the situation so I am leaving.