I'm upset that you continue to refuse to go to counseling.
I feel that even though you are attending counseling, it is clear that you are not putting forth the effort to improve our situation.
I feel that we really need to go to counseling together.
I feel that I can't continue the relationship with you because you will not attend counseling with me.
I feel you need to go to counseling to work through some things on your own.
I feel that the counseling isn't working and we need to switch counselors.
I think it's clear from our counseling sessions that we have irreconcilable differences and should consider separating.
I think it will be helpful for me to go to individual counseling to work through some personal issues on my own.